Relocation Company - Interstate Moving Company
   Moving Tips, Packing Tips, Online Moving Quotes & More





Career Books

Managing Emotions During Career Change and Job Search, Part Two


Half the battle in successfully managing your emotions during a job search or career change process is in recognizing and naming what you're feeling.  Most of us could barely brainstorm a dozen or so emotions, yet many, many more exist.

As you begin naming what you're feeling, this list of emotions, each arrayed within a cluster of similar but different emotions, will help you expand your awareness of the depth and breadth of all that you feel in the course of any given day:

Happy:

  • buoyant
  • festive
  • playful
  • brisk
  • generous
  • pleased
  • calm
  • glad
  • relaxed
  • carefree
  • grateful
  • restful
  • cheerful
  • hilarious
  • satisfied
  • comfortable
  • inspired
  • serene
  • complacent
  • jolly
  • surprised
  • contented
  • joyous
  • sparkling
  • ecstatic
  • jubilant
  • spirited
  • elated
  • lighthearted
  • thrilled
  • enthusiastic
  • merry
  • vivacious
  • excited
  • optimistic  
  • exhilarated
  • peaceful  


Eager:

  • anxious
  • earnest
  • keen
  • ardent
  • enthusiastic
  • proud
  • avid
  • excited
  • zealous
  • desirous
  • intent  
     

Doubtful:

  • defeated
  • hopeless
  • skeptical
  • dubious
  • indecisive
  • suspicious
  • evasive
  • perplexed
  • unbelieving
  • distrustful
  • pessimistic
  • uncertain
  • helpless
  • powerless
  • wavering
  • hesitant
  • questioning   
     

Physical:

  • alive
  • paralyzed
  • tense
  • breathless
  • repulsed
  • tired
  • empty
  • sluggish
  • uptight
  • feisty
  • stretched
  • weak
  • hollow
  • strong
  • weary
  • immobilized
  • sweaty  
  • nauseated
  • taut  
     

Sad:

  • ashamed
  • dull
  • quiet
  • blah
  • embarrassed
  • somber
  • choked up
  • gloomy
  • sorrowful
  • compassionate
  • heavy
  • hearted
  • sulky
  • concerned
  • ill
  • at ease
  • sullen
  • disappointed
  • in the dumps
  • sympathetic
  • discontented
  • low
  • shameful
  • discouraged
  • melancholy
  • unhappy
  • dismal
  • moody
  • useless
  • dreadful
  • mournful
  • worthless
  • dreary
  • out of sorts  
     

Hurt:

  • aching
  • heartbroken
  • pathetic
  • afflicted
  • injured
  • suffering
  • cold
  • isolated
  • tortured
  • crushed
  • lonely
  • worried
  • despair
  • offended  
  • distressed
  • pained  
     

Affectionate:

  • aggressive
  • loving
  • tender
  • appealing
  • passionate
  • warm
  • seductive
  • close
  • sexy
     

Afraid:

  • alarmed
  • fidgety
  • pressured
  • anxious
  • frightened
  • shaky
  • appalled
  • gutless
  • shocked
  • apprehensive
  • hesitant
  • scared
  • awed
  • horrified
  • suspicious
  • cautious
  • hysterical
  • terrified
  • cowardly
  • impatient
  • threatened
  • dependent
  • insecure
  • timid
  • dismayed
  • nervous
  • tragic
  • doubtful
  • panicky
  • worried
  • fearful
  • petrified  
     

Angry:

  • annoyed
  • frustrated
  • offended
  • awkward
  • fuming
  • provoked
  • belligerent
  • furious
  • resentful
  • bewildered
  • grumpy
  • stubborn
  • bitter
  • indignant
  • sulky
  • boiling
  • infuriated
  • sullen
  • confused
  • inflamed
  • wrathful
  • cross
  • irate  
  • enraged
  • irritated  
     

Fearless:

  • bold
  • determined
  • loyal
  • brave
  • encouraged
  • proud
  • confident
  • hardy
  • reassured
  • courageous
  • impulsive
  • secure
  • daring
  • independent  
     

Interested:

  • absorbed
  • engrossed
  • intrigued
  • concerned
  • excited  
  • curious
  • fascinated  
     

Miscellaneous:

  • bored
  • envious
  • mixed-up
  • cruel
  • humble
  • preoccupied
  • distant
  • jealous

Print this list and try reviewing one or more times daily to expand your awareness of what you're feeling and build your emotional vocabulary.  The more you know about your own feelings, the more equipped you will be to deal with them safely and appropriately throughout your career.

Cheryl Lynch Simpson is a Spiritual Director and Solutions Coach who helps women discover and create the life they've always wanted to live.  Cheryl is the author of over 30 print/Internet articles and the founder of Coaching Solutions For Women, a coaching website that produces and showcases career, business, and life solutions that improve the life balance of today's busy women.  For a complimentary copy of her latest e-book, Ten-Minute Stress Zappers for Women Service Business Owners, visit http://www.coachingsolutionsforwomen.com.


MORE RESOURCES:

USA TODAY

Even a short-term job can build your career
USA TODAY
By Andrea Kay, Gannett By Andrea Kay You may not see a job at a home-improvement store as your career destination, but what you learn along the way can help you achieve whatever career you desire. You may not see a job at a home-improvement store as ...

and more »


Jobs, environmental progress and economic growth work together for State of ...
Midland Daily News
Energy efficiency improvements, wind and solar energy development, more fuel efficient cars and modern high-performance rail development are good for job creation, good for economic growth and good for the environment.

and more »


Newsday

Fla. April jobless rate drops to 8.7 percent, state loses jobs but thousands ...
Washington Post
Florida's unemployment rate dropped to 8.7 percent even though the state lost jobs in April because thousands of people left the labor force. The Department of Economic Opportunity reported on Friday that April's seasonally adjusted rate declined by ...
South Bay adds 3600 jobs, strongest employment gains for April in entire stateSan Jose Mercury News
California labor market stumbles in April; state loses 4200 jobsLos Angeles Times
Unemployment Rate Drops; As Does Number of JobsPatch.com
Indianapolis Star -Tbo.com
all 1,219 news articles »


The Guardian

'jOBS' Movie to Film in Los Altos Garage Where Apple Began
PC Magazine
By David Murphy There's something strange about the thought of Hollywood reconstructing Steve Jobs' early Los Altos, California home on a backlot somewhere in Southern California. Thankfully, for Apple purists, filming for one of the two Steve Jobs ...
On the trail of Steve Jobs in CaliforniaThe Guardian
Steve Jobs Movie Begins Filming in the Original Apple GarageProfitable.com (press release)
Ashton Kutcher's 'jOBS' Gets a Start Date and a SynopsisScreenCrush

all 4 news articles »


IBNLive.com

Obama: leaders agreed growth and jobs 'top priority'
Politico
"All the leaders here today agreed growth and jobs must be our top priority," he said. "The direction the debate has taken lately should give us confidence." "There's now an emerging consensus that more must be done to promote growth and job creation ...
G8 leaders commit to 'growth and jobs'UPI.com
Growth, jobs must for stable economy: ObamaIBNLive.com
Obama: Eurozone 'must focus on jobs and growth'BBC News
WTVC -Sydney Morning Herald -BigPond News
all 3,363 news articles »


FOX6Now.com Milwaukee

Jobs number dispute really more about state's economic direction
Milwaukee Journal Sentinel
If you're like most people who tried to follow last week's spate of news on counting jobs, you are thoroughly confused by now about how many people actually work in Wisconsin. Did Wisconsin lose 33900 jobs last year, as one set of numbers shows, ...
Business leader says state's jobs numbers don't add confidenceWISC Madison
EDITORIAL: Growth in jobs? Who objects?Beloit Daily News

all 8 news articles »


Summer jobs market seems to be improving in Oklahoma City area
NewsOK.com
BY PAULA BURKES | Published: May 20, 2012 Leave a comment University of Oklahoma junior Ed Murphy looked only four days for a summer job before he found one with Lowe's in Norman. Granted, Murphy landed the job before spring break several weeks ago.

and more »


World News Resource

Steve Jobs played key role in developing the next iPhone
Los Angeles Times
By Salvador Rodriguez Deceased Apple co-founder Steve Jobs played a key part in developing the next iPhone, which is expected to be redesigned and have a larger screen than past models. Jobs, who died in October a day after the iPhone 4S was announced, ...
Apple co-founder Jobs now in 'Who Was' kids' book seriesGMA News
Possibly Steve Jobs' Last Hoorah … The iPhone 5, A Bigger Screen With 4G LTE ...ZoKnowsGaming
iPhone 5 Release Date Rumors: Steve Jobs Impact on Apple iOS 6 SmartphoneGather.com
Today's iPhone -World News Resource -iPhone FAQ
all 18 news articles »


Job market looking up for local grads
Washington Examiner
Graduation ceremonies are increasingly turning into sendoffs for gainful employment rather than a sobering reminder of mounting student debt and job rejections for the newest members of the real world in the Washington area. "Employers can ill afford ...

and more »


FOX6Now.com Milwaukee

Report: Wisconsin lost 5900 jobs in April
BusinessWeek
By TODD RICHMOND Wisconsin lost nearly 6000 jobs in April according to preliminary monthly data state labor officials released Thursday, putting Republican Gov. Scott Walker on the defensive as he faces a June 5 recall election.
Round 2: Walker and Barrett stake out opposing positionsMilwaukee Journal Sentinel
Candidates for governor talk about recent polls, jobsFOX6Now.com Milwaukee
Recall Roundup: Jobs back in focus as new report shows lossesAppleton Post Crescent
CBS News -WISC Madison -Minneapolis Star Tribune
all 1,531 news articles »

Google News

RELATED ARTICLES
Taking a Survival Type Job Is Good For You.
Ugh! Arg! How can a survivor type job be good for me? I'm barely hanging on to what I found and at minimum wage. (I have been promised a ten cent an hour increase in one month).
Career Transitions: Creating Complementary Careers in a Day
Down-sized? Outsourced? Burned-out? Wizened up? That's what I said. Wizened up! Now is not the time to be depressed.
Learning a Foreign Language
Many people love learning languages or would like to learn a language and use their language skills in a job. In today's global economy the demand for language skills continues to grow as governments, businesses and organisations build relationships with foreign interests.
Using Freelance Websites to Telecommute
How is your job hunting going? Have you had problems finding legitimate jobs? I don't know if you've ever thought about using freelance websites to obtain work at home, but this should be something you look into. It might not be for you, but you never know until you try.
Applying for a Job in Another Country? International Resumes
Is an International Resume still a Resume? This is a very common question among those looking for work overseas for the first time. When you contact companies about applying for a job with them you will not often be asked for a resume, you will be asked to send along your CV.
Fun At Work Leads to More Success
Common sense at work: Such qualities as loyalty, energy, intelligence and hard work are certain to be in any consensus of what it takes to build a successful career."However, there's another essential ingredient that is too often overlooked," says Ramon Greenwood, senior career counselor at www.
Wanted: A Diva for the Job of a Lifetime!
"When I was a child, I always thought the world was mine, A stomping ground for me, full of opportunities. I always had this attitude that I was going to go out into the world and do all the things I wanted to do.
Always Have a Current Resume
What is the biggest mistake people make with resumes?People write their resumes as a chronological summary of everything they've done in their professional lives. Employers only care about one thing: what you can do for them.
Make A Lasting Impression With Interview Etiquette
(Des Moines, Iowa - February 2, 2005) Behaving appropriately during every course of an interview is just one way to increase your success with finding a job. Here are some tips to consider before you're seated across from your interviewer.
3 Questions No Job Seeker Ever Wants To Be Asked?
Employer and interviewers expect you to answer tough question during interviews. Take a few minutes to brainstorm on how you might elaborate on the following answers.
Opportunities in Automotive Services Industries - How To Cash In
I believe it would be safe to say that the transportation industry is one of the highest revenue producers in today's modern economies.Millions upon millions of private passenger vehicles rule the highways and rural roads in countries around the world.
Five Mistakes That Can Derail Your Job Search
No matter how much time and energy you invest in job seeking, critical mistakes can derail your efforts. Consider the following job search scenario.
The Ripple Effect of Fear
Unemployment carries a lot of emotional baggage for most of us and fear is a major component. We fear the financial fallout of no longer receiving regular wages.
How To Deal With A Difficult Boss
Most people at some point in their lives have to deal with a difficult boss. Difficult supervisors vary in personality from being a little pushy or rude, all the way to being downright abusive.
Creating Your Own Luck
Losing my job in the last recession of the last century, I discovered first hand the power of creating your own luck. A week later, I decided to locate an interim position while I looked for a "real" one.
Networking Masterclass - Part 2 Practicing Altruism
Practicing Altruism The 'Golden Rule' occurred in the Greek and Chinese cultures thousands of years before the Christian era: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."  The spirit of the Golden Rule is one of generosity and altruism and is at the heart of any personal networking and 'right' living.
Waiting For the Official Job Offer
At the end of the third job interview, Helene was told by the hiring manager, "Congratulations, I am going to recommend you for the position. Expect a call from HR.
Those Little Things
Moving to another state meant finding a new dentist. I tried one a neighbor recommended who seemed friendly, competent and eager to please.
Are Your References Ready?
One of the most common forms of background check performed by companies hiring new employees is the reference check. They typically request that candidates provide them with three names of previous bosses.
Considering a Career Change?
Are you thinking about a career change? Many people do this because of specific problems or difficulties. Others want to make such a change because of some growing, generalized dissatisfaction.